Today we’d like to introduce you to Cheryl Cyr.
It’s an honor to speak with you today. Why don’t you give us some details about you and your story. How did you get to where you are today?
Haha. I got to where I am today by crying a lot in secret. True story. I’ve always been ambitious and started my first business when I was 18. It didn’t work out very well but I never gave up. I tried to figure out what I needed to do to get to where I wanted to be and I had to change my story. My old story was something like “oh my god, I’m such a loser, I dropped out of school at 16, I can’t even add, I’m a teen mom, people don’t really like me, I’m a bad person, I’m not lovable” and it goes on and on. So, I did all things went back to school got my GED, then got all the degrees, opened a private practice, starting speaking, got on TEDx, wrote a few books and again I had to pause and look at my story.
I was doing all the things to prove my worth. All of the things I was doing were external things. I wasn’t doing the internal things. I had to really take time to get to know myself. I had to treat myself with compassion and love. I didn’t like myself at all. It made me a toxic parent and partner and let me tell you that’s not easy to admit publicly. I had to begin to heal, set boundaries and work on myself. It’s been the best thing I could’ve ever done.
I’m sure your success has not come easily. What challenges have you had to overcome along the way?
Challenges, there’s literally one challenge that has a million offspring each day, and I don’t mean roaches. My thoughts have been my biggest challenge. Thoughts are the biggest challenge most people have. We turn our thoughts into these faulty wanna be concrete belief systems. We also use our thoughts as a weapon known as judgment, like if I put myself out there I’ll be a narcissist. We think we are protecting ourselves but it’s an illusion we are depriving ourselves.
There was no way I could see myself sitting in a nursing home, saying I with I had just ____. So, I really started asking myself what’s stopping me. Every single thing I came up with was external. People will judge me. People might not like me. People will think I’m a narcissist. I realized how co-dependent my way of thinking was, and I wondered why all my thoughts were negatively based. I thought back to my life story and changed everything about it. Instead of saying I’m unlovable, or people won’t like me I started saying I AM worthy of love. Everyone I meet loves me. I began to understand I didn’t need to be loved by everyone, I needed to be loved by ME. Once I learned to love myself, and accept myself my income doubled, the health improved and I’ve never been the same since. My thoughts about myself, my story, my worth and what’s possible for me have drastically changed my life.
Let’s talk about the work you do. What do you specialize in and why should someone work with you over the competition?
So, people come to me because they want change, they want things to be different. A lot of them have bought courses or things that haven’t brought them the success they wanted or were looking for. The thing that I do differently is I teach about love, I teach about how we speak to ourselves, about ourselves and others. Imagine if you say you want to make a million dollars but you secretly dislike yourself, or you lack the belief that you have value, your story has value because of the things you’ve experienced in life. You can have all the courses in the world but you’ll still be left with those thoughts and those thoughts will stop you. I’ve seen it hundreds of times. Our thoughts trigger feelings and feelings trigger change. You have to want change, you have to want more than the money, you have to be willing to go deep. It’s a whole body, whole person experience. I specialize in helping people become Soul Attuned and that means finding themselves on a deeper level, changing their beliefs so they can receive the money, health and relationships they desire. It’s there, they can have it, we can all have it, it’s our freaking birthright to have access to the abundance on this planet.
What’s your best piece of advice for readers who desire to find success in their life?
The gold mine is within, it’s not an external thing. We walk past million dollar ideas, opportunities every day. Business works. Success can come to anyone. The biggest factor is what do you believe you can have? How much money is too much? Why? What do you believe is possible for others? How you answer those questions gives you some insight into what you believe is possible for you. If we are constantly saying I want and when the thing shows up we run in the other direction what’s the message we’re sending? If we buy all the things but never tell anyone about it, what are we saying? If we start off with the belief that it isn’t going to work. What are we saying? If you truly want success, you want to make a million plus dollars a year, you want to change the world you want to help people, go deep. Do it with love. Do it with passion. Do it without fear. I could get into energy, frequency and vibration but we would be here for a year. There is so much science to support how important our energy is, and you want to know where the control panel is? Inside of you, me and each person. We are the creators. Okay, to sum it up start with self-compassion, forgiveness and love. You’ll find success beyond your wildest dreams.
Speaking of success, what does the word mean to you?
The word success to me means without limitation. I absolutely do not like feeling as though something is not available to me because of a currency called money. I want to eat the foods I choose, help the people I choose, go on vacations, hit the spa, buy the car, truck, SUV, house, pool and pay all the people to help me. I don’t want limitations, so success to me is living without limitations. I used to think it was a degree, a published book, a course that sold out, I used to vaguely describe it as freedom, but what is freedom?
My definition changed when my son was 15 years old. He got very sick and was in the PICU. The nurse said he had less than a 20% chance of making it over night. My entire world stopped. A part of me that knew freedom died in that moment. I felt all the restrictions. We didn’t have health insurance. I didn’t have the money to pay the best doctors in the world. I had to rely on myself and my ability to research. Everything, that I believed success was, was gone. I had the degree. We had the business. We had the limitations of our thoughts and that resulted in limited bank accounts.
Success is living without limitations, and the most limiting of all things we are exposed to are our thoughts.
What’s next for you?
Oh my goodness! So I’ve literally been the most inconsistent person on YouTube! Seriously. So, I sat down and made 15 weeks of shorts! I’m excited about that. I’ve been asked to create a Podcast with an amazing group of women and it’s called Why Wouldn’t I? Our first episode will be out mid January of 2023! I for now have gotten rid of all my “pre-recorded” courses and I’m doing them ALL LIVE! So scary, but I really want to interact on a deeper level with my clients this year. My Master Mind is opening and I am beyond excited it’s going to be a full year. So, ugh in 2023 come transform with me!
My focus is going to be my clients, Youtube, the Podcast, my next book and yeah, it’s a pretty full year and I’m so excited for all the other opportunities that come my way.
Finally, how can people connect with you if they want to learn more?
They can visit my website www.CalibrationCode.com come see me on social media Instagram @CherCyr Facebook @FearStopsHere
Bottom line is there are belief systems that we need to change within. Just imagine the change you can make on this planet in your lifetime if you develop some self love and trust. Increasing confidence often results in increased income. You know what happens when you have more than enough money? You stress less, you give more, you help others come up and find their own path. You get to enjoy your life.
I’ve walked up to strangers who have that look of distress on their face and I’ve handed them more money than they make two days. I couldn’t do that if I was unable to pay my own bills. The more you have the more you can give. We can’t change the world from the bank of broke. Tap into your internal Gold Mine! I think I’m going to create a course on that, so add that to the list of things I’m doing this year.
Please come visit me on the social media’s. I look forward to connecting and transforming.
